That phrase....... "It's ok not to be ok". My question though, is..... is it? Can you be honest about your feelings without the fear of judgement or criticism? Can you say things without people thinking 'oh so that explains a lot'. Working in HR and studying HR for the past 4 years, I have been … Continue reading Is it ok not to be ok?

It was a hot, balmy, Sunday evening and my phone vibrated. "What did the waiter say to the dinosaur?" Literally, what is this? Is this his opening line? I'd been laughing with my family all weekend over my sisters cheesy jokes and this seemed like a fitting end. "What would you like for tea, Rex" … Continue reading The CEO

Being single in 2019. As a 34 year old woman, I 'SHOULD' feel independent, empowered, sassy etc, shouldn't I? Being single 'doesn't define me'. Except it does. Even without people realising, they are pigeonholing me or even worse, pitying me because of my romantic situation, or to be more blatant, lack of one. Now, I … Continue reading Singledom – My Views

So, if you've read my last post you will know that I currently feel like I'm being carried by Thor himself, although I fear he may break his back because I've consumed about 10 sacks of potatoes in the month preceding this meeting. The shower is on - oh my, are we going under it? … Continue reading Mr 911 – My first true ghosting

There are times in our lives, and I'm sure I speak for a lot of people here, where a situation occurs and it knocks you so far off of your feet that at times, you aren't sure how to process it, let alone deal with your own feelings around it. This blog post is dedicated … Continue reading Mr 911

If you haven't read Part 1, you can find it here The Gaslighter – Part 1 I could not believe what I was seeing. I sent the message to my best friend immediately and she had a few choice words to say, I mean who can blame her right? She had a right to be … Continue reading The Gaslighter – Part 2

Definition: Gaslighting is a specific kind of emotional abuse designed to make the victim doubt their own perceptions, memory, and reality. And yes, it is a very cruel and sadistic thing to do to someone you purport to love, who trusts you. This is the story of P. It has taken me 2 days to … Continue reading The Gaslighter – Part 1

I ignored the 'Did you get home safely?' message.... I wasn't ready to talk. I sleep, intermittently. When I wake, no other message. Do I text? No. I'm fucking mad at him. I need time to decide how I'm going to deal with this. Find out why in Friends with Benefits – The Finale (or … Continue reading FWB….It broke me

If you haven't read the beginning and middle of this story, you can find them here Friends with Benefits: My Experience – Part One Friends with Benefits – Part Two After being completely dickmatized by A, and exploding harder than I ever thought possible, I am currently in prime position to BLOW. HIS. MIND. My … Continue reading Friends with Benefits – The Finale (or is it….)

Dickmatized. There is legitimately no other way to describe it. The last experience with A was pretty amazing. Turning me on whilst I'm fully clothed to the extent he did without laying a hand on me was like a Little Mix song - purely black magic. Read it here https://wp.me/pa73Re-U However, what followed was not. … Continue reading Friends with Benefits – Part Two