Being single in 2019. As a 34 year old woman, I 'SHOULD' feel independent, empowered, sassy etc, shouldn't I? Being single 'doesn't define me'. Except it does. Even without people realising, they are pigeonholing me or even worse, pitying me because of my romantic situation, or to be more blatant, lack of one. Now, I … Continue reading Singledom – My Views

So, if you've read my last post you will know that I currently feel like I'm being carried by Thor himself, although I fear he may break his back because I've consumed about 10 sacks of potatoes in the month preceding this meeting. The shower is on - oh my, are we going under it? … Continue reading Mr 911 – My first true ghosting

There are times in our lives, and I'm sure I speak for a lot of people here, where a situation occurs and it knocks you so far off of your feet that at times, you aren't sure how to process it, let alone deal with your own feelings around it. This blog post is dedicated … Continue reading Mr 911

If you haven't read Part 1, you can find it here The Gaslighter – Part 1 I could not believe what I was seeing. I sent the message to my best friend immediately and she had a few choice words to say, I mean who can blame her right? She had a right to be … Continue reading The Gaslighter – Part 2

Definition: Gaslighting is a specific kind of emotional abuse designed to make the victim doubt their own perceptions, memory, and reality. And yes, it is a very cruel and sadistic thing to do to someone you purport to love, who trusts you. This is the story of P. It has taken me 2 days to … Continue reading The Gaslighter – Part 1

I ignored the 'Did you get home safely?' message.... I wasn't ready to talk. I sleep, intermittently. When I wake, no other message. Do I text? No. I'm fucking mad at him. I need time to decide how I'm going to deal with this. Find out why in Friends with Benefits – The Finale (or … Continue reading FWB….It broke me

If you haven't read the beginning and middle of this story, you can find them here Friends with Benefits: My Experience – Part One Friends with Benefits – Part Two After being completely dickmatized by A, and exploding harder than I ever thought possible, I am currently in prime position to BLOW. HIS. MIND. My … Continue reading Friends with Benefits – The Finale (or is it….)

Dickmatized. There is legitimately no other way to describe it. The last experience with A was pretty amazing. Turning me on whilst I'm fully clothed to the extent he did without laying a hand on me was like a Little Mix song - purely black magic. Read it here https://wp.me/pa73Re-U However, what followed was not. … Continue reading Friends with Benefits – Part Two

Brace yourself, its a long one. I would ask anyone reading this to bear in mind that sometimes, people make mistakes. We don't always make the choices we know we should. The pull of attention or affection can hit you right when you aren't expecting it and it can embed itself so deeply into you … Continue reading Friends with Benefits: My Experience – Part One

This blog post was supposed to be about physical attraction and how much of a part it plays when looking for your eternal lobster but I tell you what..... I'm fucking SICK of dating apps. I've been on them since April properly and I'm about as close to actually wanting to go on a date … Continue reading I fucking hate dating apps….